the time that i gave a person some good advice was when i told one of my friends to date this boy because i thought he was going to be cute for her but she did not agree because of the hight differ and the age.i told her that was not wright to juged a person for something that she can not control so i guess she was digging him because she had went for it and now they are crazy about each other and thew are thinking about haveing kids together.what i was trying to get across to her is that you can not judge a book by its cover because you never know what you might get your self into if u just go for it.